'He didn't want my mom walking me down the aisle': Groom contacts fiance's biological father against her wishes

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    "Groomzilla demands bride's biological father walk her down the aisle"
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    Groomzilla demands bride's "father" walks her down the aisle
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    For context I am 26F and my father has never been in the picture he left the same day I was born leaving my mother to take care of me. Im an only child and don't have any family beyond my mother as they
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    disowned her when she fell pregnant with me when she was 17.She has been the best mum and rock through out my whole life and I'm very thankful to her for that.(now back to the point)
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    Me and my fiancé have been doing wedding planning for a couple weeks now deciding on colour themes and venues, a week ago the topic of how the ceremony will be taking place came up and I told him that my
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    mother will be walking me down the aisle as I have no father figure in my life. seeing my fiancé is a very traditional man and sees the idea of my mother walking me down the aisle as "not what should happen" he
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    was upset at me saying this and told me I should reconnect with my father so he can" give me away" (I hate that expression). I told him there is no way I'm reconnecting with someone who never tried to be in my life and ran away from his
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    responsibilities leaving my mum to raise me.when I said this it turned into a massive argument and resulted in him storming out and staying at his sisters house. the same day I received countless calls and messages telling me I'm a horrible person
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    and need to it up for one day to be the woman I am and should be. I haven't responded to any of these and I'm just taking some time to myself before I try talking to him. yesterday I found
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    out my fiancé reached out to my "father" and asked him to meet him in a few days, I am beyond p sed and rethinking this whole marriage thing. i have no clue how he found my "father" but right now I am with my mum and she is telling me I was in the
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    right and he is being a baby reacting like he did but in my mind I'm still having thoughts of if I'm the a hole for not wanting to be traditional.
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    Edit:I was just reading through some of the comments and you are all so kind I will update you soon lovely's I'm still trying to process all of this
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    Update - Dec 16, 2023 (same day, eight hours later) Hello everyone' I posted my last post 8h ago and since then I have had time to think about what I really want.
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    I have come to the decision with help from all of you and the person who messaged me (you know who you are)I will not be going foward with this marriage and will be cutting contact from my ex fiancé and his family.
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    I have no clue what he will do when he meets up with my "father" but I will be having no part of it.I will be keeping this post up so anyone in a similar situation can read the comments but I will no longer be posting on here and will be keeping my break up private.
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    I am so grateful for all of you and the support(apart from a select few)I hope all of you have a lovely day/night Edit: I will be getting lawyer just incase and will be taking precautions to keep safe
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    Echo-Black1916 19 hr. ago So glad the OOP threw the fiancee away. She deserves so much better than that. Also shout out to the mom who raised OOP on her own.
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    SusanMShwartz · 19 hr. ago Good luck and safety to you and your mother.

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